you know how much pressure there is on girls to be good at every video game they play, because if they fuck up once there’s going to be a heck of a lot of people saying how girls suck and how they shouldn’t play video games
we’ve all got that weird pretty big secret that we don’t really hide but like we don’t flaunt it like “My brother died of cancer” or “I’m gay” or “I tried to kill myself last year” or anything really and when you find out somebody’s big plot twist you know you’re in this friendship for the long run
Like…I get what this is trying to say but at the same time it’s worded terribly as if the way your life has happened is a “plot twist” also those examples are TERRIBLE like finding out that someone’s brother died of cancer or that they’re gay or that they tried to commit suicide are not big life changing things and also they’re things that are NOT ABOUT YOU and it makes me really uncomfortable that this post seems to think that someone revealing something to you makes this special person. Also, yes, in a lot of situations coming out to people is a huge deal and means you’re a close friend and it’s great that they told you BUT being gay should never be considered a “plot twist” in life as if it’s something so surprising and changes everything and oh my god everything is different now. If you behave that way after someone reveals something to you nobody will ever reveal anything to you again because it’s obnoxious, self-centered, and the EXACT OPPOSITE of how people want to be treated. Like I tried to commit suicide and the best reactions to me have been the ones where people go “oh” and then move on. As in “it happened, I’ve lived through it, let’s not focus on it”. When people try to force the conversation longer I hate it. It makes me super uncomfortable. And I dunno. Like there are inside jokes and things that imply best friendship but none of theses examples did that in my opinion and this post ended up sounding pretty shitty as a way to inflate someone’s own ego based on the lives and trust of their friends which kinda awful //end rant
“Though Mean Girls was rated PG-13 for “sexual content, language, and some teen partying,” that was a rating Paramount had to fight for, says Waters. “We had lots of battles with the ratings board on the movie. There was the line, ‘Amber D’Lessio gave a blow job to a hot dog,’ which eventually became ‘Amber D’Lessio made out with a hot dog.’ Which is somehow weirder! That’s the thing we found: When you’re trying to make a joke obey the rules and not use any bad words, it can actually become seamier, even.” Still, there were some things that Waters simply refused to change. “The line in the sand that I drew was the joke about the wide-set vagina. The ratings board said, ‘We can’t give you a PG-13 unless you cut that line.’ We ended up playing the card that the ratings board was sexist, because Anchorman had just come out, and Ron Burgundy had an erection in one scene, and that was PG-13. We told them, ‘You’re only saying this because it’s a girl, and she’s talking about a part of her anatomy. There’s no sexual context whatsoever, and to say this is restrictive to an audience of girls is demeaning to all women.’ And they eventually had to back down.””—don’t fuck with tina fey (via brokenclocksrighttwiceaday)
being friendly with a boy you aren’t romantically/physically attracted to and him developing feelings for you isn’t your fault, nor does it mean you were “leading him on”. you are under no obligation to date him.
you can just tell that Nicki Minaj is the kind of person that when you’re telling a story and everyone else in the group is talking over you, she’s making direct eye contact with you and paying extra attention so that you don’t get discouraged and stop mid-story
I’m gonna actually sleep?? Madness. Everyone else sleep well and if you’re not already go follow ryancrobert and send him some non-creepy non-sexual love because he’s awesome and he deserves it
I miss making out. I wanna do more of that. It’s really cold right now and I really want pie. Also someone to cuddle and make me warm. A giant ass dog would be a fair substitute for a hot warm guy. I should probably sleep. I am a mess right now.